Choose someone whose special days you do not want to miss.
Make sure the people who matter most never feel forgotten.
Tell us who they are, what they love, and the moments that matter. We make remembering feel effortless, with every nudge coming to you first.
Free setup. Founding plan: $19/year for up to 10 people. Nothing goes to them without your yes.
How it works
Choose someone. Remember what matters to them. Forget it.
Think of them once. Before their day, the nudge comes back to you.
Peonies, oat milk, Nobu, hard weeks, little things.
Birthdays, interviews, moving days, hard anniversaries.
A thoughtful note comes back to you first, ready to approve.
From start to finish
One quiet loop: remember, prepare, approve.
Set up one person for free. If you want us to carry the remembering, activate the founding set-and-forget plan.
Set up free
No credit card to set someone up. Begin with one person and see if the relief is real.
Add what matters
Birthday, anniversary, favorite coffee, hard weeks, big interviews, and anything else worth remembering.
Prepare the note
You leave with words you can use, change, or rewrite when their day gets close.
Get the nudge
Founding members get reminders handled for up to 10 people, with the note ready for review.
Approve and send
Send it, edit it, skip it, or add a small gift later. Nothing goes to them without your yes.
The experience
It should feel like care, not admin.
The first flow stays small: who, what makes them smile, which moments matter, and the nudge you will get.
Who are you thinking about?
Start with one person you do not want to let slip through the cracks.
Their name
What makes them smile?
Peonies, oat milk, favorite restaurants, places, and inside jokes.
- Food & drinks
- Books & shows
- Places
- Things to know
Before the moment, you get this.
The reminder comes to you first.
Mom's birthday is Tuesday.
I drove by flowers today and thought of her peonies. Want to send this?
Send
Edit
Skip
Why it matters
Great relationships are not built on perfect memory. They are built on showing up.
Love remembers details.
Life moments deserve a place.
Special days deserve a place.
Ordinary Tuesdays count too.
You approve before anything goes to them.
Pricing
Free setup. $19/year to set and forget.
Try the first-person setup free. The founding plan is an annual subscription that covers up to 10 people, unlimited special days, life moments, and just-because nudges, so the reminder actually comes back before it matters.
Support
Help is a human email away.
Questions, bugs, payment concerns, or feedback can be sent to hello@ontheirday.com. A real person will read it.
FAQ
Simple on purpose.
What is On Their Day?
A quiet reminder and note-prep app that helps you remember important people, keep their special days and life moments close, and have something thoughtful ready when the time comes.
Does it send messages automatically?
No. Today, you copy and send the note yourself. If text reminders or sending are added later, every message will come to you first for approval.
Will On Their Day text me?
That is the product direction: a simple heads-up when someone has a birthday, hard week, big interview, or just-because moment coming up, with a note you can send, edit, or ignore. Today, the web version previews that nudge and lets you add dated moments to your own calendar.
Is it free?
It is free to set up one person and see the note/reminder preview. The founding set-and-forget plan is $19/year for up to 10 people, unlimited special days, life moments, and just-because nudges.
Can I cancel?
Yes. Founding members can cancel future renewal by emailing hello@ontheirday.com. If the plan is not useful in the first 14 days, email us and we will make it right.
What am I paying for?
The paid plan is for the outcome: On Their Day helps make sure the reminder comes back before the day, with a thoughtful note ready for approval.
Are e-gift cards purchased automatically?
No. Gift cards are only a planning detail right now. If partner suggestions are added later, they should be optional, clearly labeled, and never purchased without approval.
How do I get support?
Email hello@ontheirday.com with questions, bug reports, payment concerns, or feedback.
Why start on the web?
So you can try it now, and so the first experience can get clearer and warmer before it becomes a native app.
Where is my information stored?
Today, your information is saved in this browser on this device. Please don't add anything you would not want stored locally.
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